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10 Family Sacrifices to Help Pay for College

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10 Family Sacrifices to Help Pay for College

Published April 21, 2018 | Last Updated July 11th, 2024 at 10:16 am

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We’re in the same boat as you. We’re solidly middle class.

So, to make college affordable, we’ve literally forced and micromanaged our oldest child (a sophomore at our State University) to maintain his GPA high enough to keep his full-tuition scholarships. If he wants to live on campus, he simply has to be an RA so he can have free housing.

No other choices. Non-negotiable.

Our next oldest child (a high school senior) has to work full-time all summer.

She’s a lifeguard and can get full-time seasonal hours easily. She must also accept a work-study at the college she’s going to, and she’ll also take the subsidized student Direct loan, just in case we cannot afford the monthly payment plan while she’s in school. She is going to a no-loan school but can take one if needed.

Her college expects less than 10k/yr from us after financial aid, but just in case we don’t have it, she can cover the whole portion with her summer savings plus work study plus loans. We’re not taking any chances.

11 Family Sacrifices to Help Pay for College

Then, more radically, these are 11 things we’ve done and sacrificed, which I recommend other families do to pay for college:

  1. We reduced the dollar amount of coverage on our car insurance plan, which saved us 20% of what we previously were paying.
  2. I had every licensed driver take a 6-hour defensive driving class to save another 10%-15% off our car insurance premiums.
  3. I called the phone, internet, and cable company and seriously was going to turn them all off until they gave us an “introductory rate package,” saving 35% off.
  4. Restaurants and fast food are things of the past. We eat at home almost every meal.
  5. I now grocery shop at Aldi instead of Safeway, which slashed our monthly grocery bill in half.
  6. We also donate all our outgrown clothing every other month to a clothing consignment store ministry in our area. We get the tax write-off, help our local community, and consider it part of our tithe.
  7. We have deliberately maxed out my husband’s 401k contributions on his job. This is because we don’t have enough saved for retirement, lowering our taxable income.
  8. I practice hypermiling in our cars to increase fuel economy.
  9. We make everything last. Our newest vehicle has over 100,000 miles. And our living room furniture is officially 20 years old this March. I learned how to relax my hair and braid my youngest daughter’s hair myself. My older girls grew their hair into natural styles to save money on hair salons.
  10. I increased the deductibles on our health insurance plan and dental coverage, and now I insist the kids eat healthier, go to the gym with me, and floss their teeth to reduce the risk of anyone needing anything expensively health-related in the next four years.
  11. We have no debt except our mortgage.

Our kids are killing it in college and high school because we’ve made it clear there are really no fall-back options.

No one is going hungry. Our bills are paid.

It’s a little austere, but it’s NOT forever.

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